Solid piece you put out there.
There's nothing special being a CM, yet, it has everything to do with being special. They are the first people you notice in the team, and you might think they are the founders. But, in truth, they have who they also report to.
CMs are most respected than other team members, yet can't take a strategic decision alone. As a CM, it's important on learns how to use this invincible power to their advantage.
I remembered been added to the ambassador team of Eclipse Finance with the help of my friend 'Tony' who was both their SMM and CM at that point, but our friendship didn't stop him from failing my trash works. Yet, I can't solicit for uncalled walk-overs of my submissions just because we are friends. he made sure that I had to earn it. He set boundaries so I don't disrespect the friendship.
CMs can be weak, but show no signs of weakness. It doesn't stop you from accepting that you are wrong when a member points it out to you.
Key points I have learned in all your material drops so far is you should aim to turn community members into friends with each other and with you. They will always want to come back to interact with you and in turn interact with the project